The wisdom of a child…


“Mum, do I have Autism?”  Master seven was standing in front of me with a furrowed brow.

“Well, we think so,”
“Why?”
“Because people with Autism think a little differently to other people,”
“No, why do I have it?”
“Oh, because you’re special,”
“So why do kids tease me?”
“People can do silly things when they don’t understand something.  Perhaps the children don’t understand about Autism?”
“Hmm so it’s not a bad thing?”
“No, son.  It is good in many many ways!”
“Okay, so it’s like a super power?”
“I guess you could say that,”
“YES!” *fist pump*  “I think I’m going to need a cape,”

*sigh*
Now WHERE did I put that sewing machine…

It’s Thankful Thursday again and I’m always grateful for some simplicity and wisdom. ;)
How about you?
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Vicky (7 years ago)

Gorgeous boy, beautiful Mumma. Love this x
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    CJ (7 years ago)

    Thanks Vicky! He can be a cutie! ;) xx

Janet @ Redland City Living (7 years ago)

Love it! What a great way to look at the world – his difference is a super power. YEAH!
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    CJ (7 years ago)

    Now I just have to hope he doesn’t think that means beating up another child… I shall need to sort that. *sigh* ;) xxx

Emily @ Have a laugh on me (7 years ago)

Aww that is a gorgeous conversation. But I’m also a little sad when he said about kids teasing him, that is the one thing I fear the most for my kids, myself being someone who was teased A LOT as a kid.
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    CJ (7 years ago)

    It does break my heart Emily but I can’t change how others see him, I can only help how he sees himself… and hope that is enough to keep him strong and keep the lines of communication open. I was teased a lot as a child too and I struggle to understand the mentality. :/ xx

Leigh (7 years ago)

Oh Bless him! He is definately special!!! Enjoy making those super hero costumes… I think you might need a few! Thanks for linking up today xxxxx
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    CJ (7 years ago)

    He is most definitely special Leigh. I’m just glad he doesn’t expect a lycra suit. Lycra has never been my forte! ;) xx

Brooke (7 years ago)

Sometimes kids help US understand things a bit better hey?

    CJ (7 years ago)

    Many times, everday Brooke! We wouldn’t have it any other way though. ;) x

Yvette @ Little Bento Blog (7 years ago)

oh that is so sweet!!! I love his outlook on Autsim!! Definitely deserves a cape for that!! :)

#TUST
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    CJ (7 years ago)

    Indeed! I just need to find my way to the fabric stash – I fear I’ll be lost for a few years though! :) x

Dorothy @ Singular Insanity (7 years ago)

Love it! He definitely has super powers and you must make him a cape :-)
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    CJ (7 years ago)

    Shhh D! Don’t tell him that. He has a few capes already… I wonder what this one has to have? ;) x

Min (7 years ago)

Beautiful – just gorgeous! As a mum of an aspie I can agree that it IS a good thing. They are special, have super powers and are fabulous! xo
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    CJ (7 years ago)

    Absolutely Min! I wouldn’t change any of mine. So many positives! :D x

Kirsty @ My Home Truths (7 years ago)

I have had conversations like that with 8yo Gilbert who also asks me why he has autism and albinism on a regular basis – I like your answers BTW! I haven’t had the ‘autism’ conversation with 7yo Matilda yet but we will need to do that sooner rather than later… Good luck putting together that cape!
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    CJ (7 years ago)

    It must be quite a challenge to even attempt to understand why at such a young age I think Kirsty. I’m still awaiting my instructions for the cape… *sigh* xx

Amanda @ Cooker and a Looker (7 years ago)

I think you should make two! :) What a gorgeous little man.
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    CJ (7 years ago)

    Thanks Amanda, It usually is two… as Master 5 will no doubt make an appearance wanting one! ;) x

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    CJ (7 years ago)

    Indeed. My little thinker! :D

Eleise (7 years ago)

Aww what a sweet conversation. Great answers too :)
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    CJ (7 years ago)

    Thanks Eleise. We have many conversations in our household about many different topics! :D

Leanne @ Deep Fried Fruit (7 years ago)

What a wise and powerful young man. Better get working on that cape!
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    CJ (7 years ago)

    Ahh another cracking that whip Leanne? ;) xx

Lydia C. Lee (7 years ago)

That’s really lovely. You need to dig out Eric Bibbs ‘Always trust your cape’ and play it for him.

    CJ (7 years ago)

    Thank you Lydia! I will do that. :) x

Gina (7 years ago)

Such a sweet story. Some of the most amazing kids I have know have Autism.
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    CJ (7 years ago)

    I must totally agree on the amazing kids having Autism Gina. Thanks for stopping by! :)

EssentiallyJess (7 years ago)

Yes totally a super power. But I’m trying to think what name he would have? Autism-Man just doesn’t have the right ring to it ;)
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    CJ (7 years ago)

    In full Aspie style Jess, I believe the name chosen was SuperBoy… ;-) xx

Me (7 years ago)

Oh bless him ! Out of the mouths of babes. Good luck with the cape – I think you should make three – one for each of them and one for you for being Super Mom !!!
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    CJ (7 years ago)

    Indeed hon. Not sure on THAT much material though. LOL! ;) xxx

Rita (7 years ago)

What I clever little boy! Full of wisdom indeed!
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    CJ (7 years ago)

    Thanks Rita. He is a total cutie too but shhhh don’t tell him I said that. ;) x

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